Issues with my best friend...?

This may not be what you want to hear but he doesn't sound like a very good friend... If it was one of my friend doing this to me I would seriously put our friendship into question. It might be different with guys but I think friends are supposed to be there for you and be happy for you when you meet someone and listen to you if you have a problem and he doesn't seem to really care about you or your feelings or needs... I think you need to figure out if you can handle how he is or if you maybe need to tone back your guys' time together a little... Good Luck! nobody deserves to be treated like that by a friend.